Many women are very afraid of sex. They are
afraid of having sex with a their partner. Sustained sexual fear not only harms
couples' sexual harmony, but also affects their feelings. Because almost no
normal man can tolerate the long-term asexual couple life caused by his wife's
fear of sex. When couples encounter this problem, they should face it together
and work together to overcome it and solve it.
How can I help my wife overcome her sexual
fear?
1.
Women learn more knowledge
As scholars say, "Stupidity and
insecurity create fear, but knowledge and security reject fear." Many
women's sexual fear is caused by lack of sexual knowledge. So couples can read
books about sexual knowledge together to understand women's physiological
structure and sexual psychology, sexual reflection and other related knowledge.
2.
Women transfer attention
Women can effectively eliminate sexual fear
by shifting their attention and focusing elsewhere. For example, in the first
sexual intercourse, men should focus on women's care and consideration, caress
and patience. By talking and caressing to ease her nervous mood, gradually
stimulate women's sexual desire. If women can't suppress sexual impulse and
then gradually complete sexual union, the fear will naturally disappear.
3.
Don't bring fear into marriage
If fear is brought into sexual life after
marriage, it will destroy and hinder the relationship and sexual harmony between
husband and wife. In order to avoid such bad consequences, the bride should
have a real and complete understanding of the process of sexual intercourse
before marriage. Physiologically, the vagina has good flexibility. If women can
overcome their fear, they can get full pleasure. But the more afraid you are,
the more nervous you will be, and the more you will fall into the fear of sex.
4.
Husband's full participation
and comfort
In sexual relations, adequate communication
and discussion are necessary processes. They can increase intimacy in
communication and break unnecessary shame. And in the husband to comfort his
wife, let the wife feel concerned. If he can make sure that he treats his wife
as gently as possible, fear will disappear into happiness.
What are the benefits of sexual
satisfaction for women?
1. Sex burns calories to keep slim
Research shows that a warm kiss burns 12
calories, and a ten-minute caress burns 50 calories. During sex, both sides are
in a state of excitement, metabolism is accelerating rapidly, one half hour to
one hour of sex, burning five or six hundred calories is conceivable.
2. Orgasm can release pressure, relieve
tension and promote sleep.
During orgasm, the release of human
hormones prevents us from feeling stressed, and the response is a process that
lasts for hours until hormone levels return to normal levels throughout the
body system. Muscles are fully excited during sexual intercourse to maintain
tension. When relaxation is restored after the event, it can increase the
body's fatigue and help resting and sleeping.
3. Sexual orgasm can keep women
youthful
Whether from Darwin's point of view of
evolution or from the point of view of modernity experts, it has been shown
that long-term non-use of sexual organs can lead to its tendency to degenerate.
Sexual orgasm can promote vaginal secretion of sufficient mucus, further ensure
vaginal lubrication, and moisturize the vagina.
So when women face the problem of sexual
fear, what both men and women should do is to face it and solve it, not to
escape. And in the process of solving, men should play a very important role.
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