Premarital sex

In today's sexual openness, premarital sex has become very common. Many couples even cohabit before marriage, so what kind of ideas do they agree to? Do they try to live together before marriage out of curiosity, or do they need to know each other deeply because of love? Let's get to know the psychology of premarital sex.

Because of Curiosity

Many girls hope to have sex after marriage because of religious or cultural factors. But curiosity is often hard to control. Under the influence of hormones, mature people are full of curiosity about each other's body, they are eager to explore and understand each other's body. There are more and more temptations in today's society, and all kinds of channels can be exposed to sex-related content. This makes them more curious. That's why many people want to try sex.

Poor control

Many couples lack reason under the sweet impact of love. Especially in the developed network society, many people establish love relationships after they have a preliminary understanding of the network, but after meeting in reality, they let go of their inner shyness and begin to hold hands or kiss. With a breakthrough in kissing, if there is no strong control over the supervision, greedy people will be driven by sexual desire to try sex. With the first attempt, then the breakthrough behind is not difficult. So now many people are moving quickly from love to premarital cohabitation.

To satisfy her boyfriend

Not every girl is totally voluntary when she first has sex. Sometimes they are forced to make a choice. Many boys use sexual behavior as a criterion to judge whether the other party loves themselves when they are in love. They force their girlfriend to either try sex or break up. Many girls complete their first sexual act before they are forced to do so in exchange for their boyfriend's trust and care. But the relationship in this state is very difficult to have an end. Men who do not respect women are selfish and narrow-minded. The end result of this relationship is often a breakup.

In return for her boyfriend

Many women, though very sensible, control themselves. But many women have sex for the first time because they are moved by their boyfriend's efforts. Some women are deeply touched by their boyfriends' care for themselves during their love life, and their devotion to helping themselves, taking care of themselves or their boyfriends to solve major problems for themselves or their families, regardless of whether they study or live. When they meet their boyfriend's sexual demands, they will think more about their boyfriend's feelings and fear that rejection will hurt their boyfriend. So they use sex as an important way to satisfy their boyfriend in return.

Want to Upgrade Love

Many couples regard sexual behavior as an inevitable trend after love to a certain extent, which is an inevitable stage in the process of love and marriage. They believe that with the development of love, sexual behavior can maintain and promote love and increase the cohesion of both sides.   Or some people want to know each other better through sex, adapt to marriage in advance, and avoid paying a heavier price for finding problems or contradictions that cannot be solved after marriage. This is the idea of many women nowadays. Driven by this idea, they volunteered to take a sexual step, hoping to promote the development of love.

Cohabitation before marriage has different effects on different couples. It may promote the development of love and make both sides sweeter. It may also allow the two parties to find more problems and contradictions, and finally break up and end the relationship. So couples shouldn't rush about sex, but need to make rational decisions after they have a good understanding of it.