What do men and women think in the face of marriage setbacks

What do men and women think when they face setbacks in marriage? Mental health analysis shows that men and women have different ideas when facing marriage setbacks. The following is the analysis.

1. Men are cowardly animals. They don't want to be alone. When marriage is frustrated, they think first of derailment rather than divorce.

First of all, men are lonely and cowardly animals. They don't want to be alone. Because they are not used to doing housework since childhood, divorce means to be alone, life will be extremely inconvenient, for this reason they refuse to divorce. Secondly, because men are sexually active when they are young, once lose a stable sex relationship woman, it can be quite a lethal blow to them. Therefore, even if there is no relationship with women today, as long as they do not find the next lover, they will not be determined to divorce.

This is a unique pattern of behavior for men. Even if love is no longer there or has long been indifferent, they often ask for sex pleasure without caring. Even if they really have the idea of divorce, they will not initiate divorce until they find the next alternative. Thirdly, men are accustomed to facing pressure by escaping, derailing and quickly escaping to another woman, which is a way for them to relieve their own pressure. That's one of the reasons why we see men cheating far more than women.

2. Women often prefer a broken jade to a complete tile. When their marriage is frustrated, the first thing they think about is divorce.

Many wives prefer to leave the house rather than live a dull life every day. When a woman marries a man, her greater hope is to live a happy and stable life. If a man can't give her, a woman will naturally have a strong desire to leave. Therefore, divorce is the first choice for female friends to solve problems. In addition, women can't tolerate bad emotions. The way to end bad emotions is to end marriage.

To sum up, when marriage is facing setbacks, the first thing men think about is to find the other woman, extramarital affairs, rather than trying to solve the problems in marriage. Women think of divorce, but like men, they are reluctant to solve problems. Whether it's derailment or divorce, it's not the best way.