Harm to sex addicts

According to Fortune magazine, about 6% of the American population is addicted to sex, which is likely to rise. Among them, the fastest-growing group is the so-called "professionals" with successful careers, including senior leaders of enterprises, doctors, priests, lawyers, athletes, trust funds, bankers and advertisers, etc., while the stock traders on Wall Street are particularly ill. There are also many CEOs of Fortune 500 companies seeking medical advice.

One of the characteristics of "sex addicts" is that all kinds of diseases are complicated, such as anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder or fear of oppression. Therefore, they may also drink as much as they want, and they are gamblers, workaholics or sportsmen. "Sex addiction" is different from other addictions. Some of them only need 15 minutes to get over the addiction, such as surfing on pornographic websites, and then they can return to the conference table as if nothing happened. "Sex addicts" generally feel good about themselves and don't admit what's wrong with them.

As long as people suffer from "sexual addiction", they are almost unable to extricate themselves. Such as chasing sex all day long, fantasizing, or being emaciated because of "working overnight", but the work efficiency is greatly reduced, and the career is slowly forgotten.

There was a playboy who was born into a fortune 500 family. He had a wide range of interests when he was in college, but he had no income at all. He transferred several times to study, but still didn't get a degree. At the age of 26, I joined a company, which is responsible for two businesses on the East and west coasts of the United States. I am well paid. I fly first class and take a high-end car. Later, he worked around the world, 14 to 16 hours a day, flying around the world. During the busy working hours, drinking and playing with women became an indispensable ornament in his life, and there were many mistresses like beads to string together.

Some women entrepreneurs are keen to do the same. A 14-year-old female entrepreneur first tasted forbidden fruit when she was dating her boyfriend, but later she was out of control. She is very fond of chasing foreign men and often flies abroad to meet them. Even the blue collar workers she did not let go. Once, when I was flying, I nearly ran into the car in front of me because of the winking at the construction workers outside.

This "sexual addiction" almost ruined her career. She found that business was almost impossible because she slept with people from related companies. As a result of the ambiguous relationship, one of his employees constantly blackmailed her, almost squeezing her to the ground. But she couldn't stop the car. For her, the more dangerous sex games are, the more exciting they are. She even has a dozen male real love sex dolls at home so that she can meet her sexual needs at any time. Finally, she had to go to the anonymous sex addict clinic.

How to treat "sex addicts"

The United States is a highly developed country, "sexual addiction" has been basically recognized by the American medical community, and has established a national organization - "National Commission on sexual addiction and obsessive-compulsive disorder", which can receive more than 50 emails and 30 or 40 consultation calls every week. The Committee has more than 100 therapists and the team is expanding. In addition, there is the "help enterprise employees diagnosis and treatment expert Association" composed of experts who treat patients with "sexual addiction". These "enterprise employee diagnosis and treatment experts" are specially employed by large American companies to treat the psychological diseases of these employees, especially the senior management.

At the lawn clinic in Arizona, there is an absolute ban on reading idle books and only five to 10 minutes on the phone. The only allowed bad habit is smoking, but it can only be inhaled in the separate smoking places of men and women, so as to avoid providing opportunities for men and women patients to get close to each other. They are only allowed to have sex once a week with adult dolls.

In "Grassland", patients were assigned to different groups after detailed medical and psychological assessment. Then let them write their memoirs in a week, and reflect on the mistakes they have made in the past and the harm they have done to others. Then there are lectures (a few hours a day), 12 step talks (almost always through the night), group therapy (three hours a day). They can't touch any opposite sex during the treatment. The only sexual stimulation they can touch is the real love doll.

Now more and more large American companies have realized the harm that sexual addiction may cause to the company, and are taking steps to resist the influence of "Yellow Peril" within the company. If it is stipulated that the office computer is the property of the company, it is not allowed to use the company computer to browse pornographic websites or download pornographic websites. The company's management has the right to check the employees' computers without prior notice. Some companies stipulate that no matter how well the managers do their work, they are not allowed to act on the heterosexual subordinates.