How to deal with sexual harassment in office



Office sexual harassment is the most important type of sexual harassment in western countries, but it has been ignored in China for a long time. If sexual harassment in public places only oppresses one gender against another, then sexual harassment in the family has the color of elders, while sexual harassment in the office often relies on social and professional privileges, such as sexual harassment from superiors to subordinates, which cannot avoid the background of occupational threat. As a result, office sexual harassment is considered to be the most serious form of sexual harassment, which shows the gender inequality of the whole society.

When many people talk about sexual harassment in the office, women, as a vulnerable group in the public image, will be the first time people think of them. However, are only girls vulnerable to office sexual harassment? No, it isn't! In the modern workplace, men are also vulnerable to sexual harassment. They suffer from sexual harassment, which is difficult to obtain evidence and publicize, leading to their silence and tolerance. In the workplace, men and women are equally likely to suffer from workplace sexual harassment, so both men and women should learn to protect themselves.

So how to deal with the sexual harassment of your boss or colleagues?

1.     Dress properly to avoid overexposure
Short skirts and miniskirts are the love of many women, because they can show the perfect figure of women. Love beauty is the nature of every girl, but girls should learn to show their charm in the right space and time. Too keen to wear short skirts or miniskirts in the office will often bring unnecessary troubles to oneself. Because short skirts and miniskirts will give men unlimited imagination space, let their eyes focus on the graceful figure of girls, thus generating inappropriate thoughts.

2.     Pay attention to the behavior in the Office
Many boys will tell jokes or topics related to sex in the office. If girls participate in the discussion of such topics too much, they will give boys the impression of frivolity and disrespect. So male colleagues often think that you will accept the office ambiguity, which brings you unnecessary trouble.

3.     Don't accept the dating invitation of male colleagues alone, and don't share a room with male colleagues alone for a long time
Don't accept the invitation of male colleagues alone, don't get along with male colleagues alone for a long time, which is a clear principle for a girl to enter the workplace. Dating or being alone with a male colleague increases the chances of sexual harassment. A lot of sexual harassment happens when you are alone with a male colleague.

4.     Severe rejection in the face of sexual harassment
Many people choose to swallow their anger when encountering sexual harassment, but this will encourage the implementer's fluke psychology and make the other party more fearless. When you encounter sexual harassment, only loudly scolding and severely rejecting can you crack down on the other party's further ideas and prevent you from being sexually harassed again. Both men and women will continue to suffer more sexual harassment if they do not stop and reject each other immediately.

In the workplace, both men and women should always remind themselves to pay attention to their clothes and behaviors, so as to avoid increasing the possibility of sexual harassment for themselves. However, when you are really suffering from sexual harassment, you should not be afraid or silent. You should stop it boldly and refuse it severely.

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