How can we understand sexual fantasy
correctly? Sexual fantasy is also what we call sexual immorality. We may have a
prejudice against this word. We feel that it is an abnormal physiological or
psychological phenomenon, because it is more vulgar and feels that this person
is abnormal. Is sexual fantasy an angel or a devil?
After marriage, many couples' sex life is
monotonous, and the quality of sex life is gradually declining. Sexual fantasy
is one of the simplest and most effective ways to make a dull sex life stand
out. Generally, both men and women can have sexual fantasies. The situations
and sexual objects in sexual fantasies can reflect people's real needs, and the
fantasies are often inconsistent with the reality. Its wonderful place lies in
can not be limited by time, space, increase sexual excitement, help to
cultivate the interest of making love, promote the arrival of climax. According
to the research, women who have active and happy sexual life often have rich
fantasy experience.
Women can imagine a handsome man,
middle-aged and old men can imagine young and beautiful women. These
"ideal people" are fictional, not specific to a specific person. Most
of the fantasy objects disappear after the end of sexual life, so they have no
destructive effect on the relationship between husband and wife. If you can't
forget the sexual fantasy object all day, or even imagine your colleagues or
friends, it may affect the normal relationship between husband and wife, which
is contrary to the purpose of improving the quality of sexual life.
So, is there any pathological form of
sexual fantasy? Yes, we have. Sexual fantasy may occupy an important position
in some people with over developed imagination and poor self-control, which may
cause people to fall into too deep, so as to interfere with normal study and
work, and develop to the point of "compulsive sexual fantasy". Especially
teenagers, with active thinking and poor self-control, may deviate from the
right direction under strong sexual stimulation. The space of sexual fantasy is
extremely private, and any fantasy may come into being. Experts believe that
everyone has sexual fantasies. Some people have fantasies about movie stars,
some have fantasies about naked photos they have seen, some have fantasies
about first lovers, and most people have fantasies about things that once
brought them strong sexual stimulation. As long as sexual fantasies do not lead
to abnormal or violent behaviors, they should be normal.
Sexual fantasy is possible for every normal
person. It's good for our sex and adds fun to our sex life. It's a part of
normal life, not a disease. However, the fantasy should be moderate, especially
for the young girls and boys in the flowering season. If they just fantasize,
especially indulge in sexual fantasy, they will delay their studies, go astray,
and even go on the road of sexual crime or have sexual psychological barriers.
Sex fantasy is good for your health and you
can lose weight
Czech medical experts through experimental
research show that: sexual imagination is not only good for health, but also
help to lose weight. Dr. Peter staatz of a hospital in Baltimore, Czech,
conducted an experiment with a group of college students. He asked them to put
their hands in cold water until they couldn't bear the pain. But if you put
your hands in the water while imagining something wonderful to distract your
attention, the result is that those college students who imagine sex spend
twice as much time in the ice water as others. According to Dr. staatz, pain
perception is dominated by rationality because the same area of the brain
"radiates" emotion and pain. If a patient imagines racing in a car
race, he will forget all about the pain. What excites women is that sexual
imagination can also help them lose weight. When women can't help but want to
eat snacks, think about sex. When the imagination is full of sex, the snacks
that make people fat will be left behind.
Fantasy is not equal to reality. Sexual
fantasy is a safe exit of our deepest desire. Normal people's sexual fantasies
are not the hallucinations of mental patients. With fantasies, we can strengthen
our self-worth, make us focus on our own advantages; with fantasies, we can
also relieve stress and tension, help us cope with emotional pressure, and
timely reduce the biggest obstacle to our satisfaction anxiety.
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