If you take a survey of married men and women: Do you and your
spouse talk about sex often? Nine times out of ten, I'm afraid, will answer
"no".
Some husbands might say disapprovingly, "There's nothing to
talk about..." The wife may turn pale: "Ah! How can we talk about
that?" As a matter of fact, it is very important and necessary for couples
to discuss sexual problems and develop sexual communication.
The sexual communication that says here refers to husband and
wife to communicate with each other in sexual life and summarize each other's
sexual needs, sexual experience, sexual response, discuss how to adapt to each
other, tacit understanding, so as to improve the quality of husband and wife's
sexual life.
However, many couples are reluctant to talk about sex with their
partners because they think it is too embarrassing and undermines their self-esteem
and dignity. Because each partner does not know what the other likes and wants,
it is often difficult to generate enough sexual excitement and pleasure for
both partners.
The sexual relationship between a husband and wife is the most
intimate relationship among people, but it, like any other human relationship,
requires mutual communication and understanding. If couples talk about their
sexual lives more often, it will help them understand each other better, make
their sex lives more harmonious and fulfilling. It's the psychological needs of
the couple; It is also the physiological need of the husband and wife, but also
the need to strengthen the couple's feelings and establish a happy
family.
If we compare the relationship between a couple to a growing
tree, then regular communication and communication between the couple is the
nourishment. An open, passionate conversation, an attitude of mutual
consultation, is certainly a useful way to promote a couple's relationship, but
such openness is not exactly the same as being outspoken.
From the point of view of improving the quality of marriage,
even between couples, there are some things that should be said casually, such
as: Words that hurt self-esteem should not be said. Don't say anything that
might cause doubt. When encountering emotional problems, wait for time to
dissolve, and don't point fingers at each other.
Couples who communicate regularly have higher levels of sexual
satisfaction than those who don't, according to sexologists.
Strengthening sexual communication between husband and wife
plays an irreplaceable positive role in promoting marital affection, improving
the quality of life of husband and wife and increasing family happiness. It can
be seen that sexual communication between husband and wife is an important
secret to ensure a harmonious and happy sexual life, which cannot be taken
lightly.
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