Sex is the deepest, strongest,
and therefore one of the most essential activities in human instincts.
Therefore, the ancients said: The desire for food and sex is a part of human
nature. However, things are always very different. On the one hand, sex
is an indispensable instinct for human beings. On the other hand, due to the
huge psychological pressure in various aspects of modern society, a
considerable number of men and women have gradually developed "sexual
fatigue".
According to the survey, most of these men and
women are engaged in intellectual (or mental) labor. These men and women
originally had a pleasing sex life, but unexpectedly fell into the predicament
of "sexual fatigue", making them depressed and unhappy and unpleasant.
In order to get rid of the predicament of sex life, the following should be
done:
Formula 1: There is no standard for the number of
sex times.
In other words, the position of sex life should be
right. For some couples, having sex once a month is more effective and both
parties are satisfied, while some people may feel satisfied after having sex
five times a week. This is an individual difference, and uniformity cannot be
enforced. As long as the two parties meet with sincerity and clearly express
their feelings, they will be in harmony and will not mistrust each other,
otherwise a vicious circle will be formed.
Formula 2: Perceptual contact is not necessarily a
sexual act.
Men generally believe that sexual intercourse must
include sexual intercourse. This is wrong. Sexual life contains many aspects,
not necessarily accompanied by the excitement of sexual intercourse every time.
Women know the truth best: As long as there is some kind of thoughtfulness, it
is enough. In other words, when she takes the initiative to hug you, she doesn't
necessarily ask you to be "actual", maybe she just wants to find a
warm feeling.
Formula 3: Carry out in a planned way.
Make love should also be planned, only in this way
can there be tacit cooperation between lovers. In fact, it is also a very
emotional enjoyment for the two to make a "sex life plan". For
example, a man complained: "She usually likes to have sex very late, and I
just can't lift the energy at that time." As a result, the "sex"
was not in time, and they fell asleep. It can be seen that the "plan"
is very important.
Formula 4: Play some romantic tricks.
When the two are alone together, they can light up
candles for dinner; or they can cover their legs with a blanket, watch the moon
and chat on the balcony, relive the tenderness of their first love... Now many
couples are also fashionable with a "lover sex", that is, from time
to time Go to the hotel for the night. Enjoying sex in a casual way is often
particularly relaxed, which can reduce stress and increase intimacy between two
people. There is no fixed formula for love, and the same is true for sex.
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