How to coordinate sex in middle age

 Some people may often say that sex is a thing for young people, because they are strong and passionate. But they overlooked one point: Although young people have explosive power, they lack endurance, and they often "crash" instantly because of too anxious. Kavin Zhou Shaohu, chief physician of the Department of Urology at the First Affiliated Hospital of Guangzhou University of Traditional Chinese Medicine, told the reporter of <Life Times> that as a matter of fact, men have better self-control ability when they are older, and they can "do whatever they want" in sex.

After the age of 50, with age, men will experience a series of physiological changes. Such as the time to complete an erection is much later than when you were young, the number of rhythmic contractions during ejaculation is reduced, and the refractory period after an ejaculation is significantly prolonged.

Although men will experience the above-mentioned changes, the key point is that their erectile ability has not disappeared. Moreover, older men have an outstanding advantage, that is, their ability to control ejaculation far exceeds that of young men. On the one hand, because the elderly are not as sexually excited as the young, they can last longer in sex. On the other hand, couples live longer together, and the cooperation between the two parties is more tacit. In this way, they relieved their time pressure: Don't worry about premature ejaculation, you can take various reasonable methods until both parties are satisfied. As a result, the quality of sexual life is significantly improved.

 However, many men will say that the above-mentioned "improvements" do not appear to have appeared in their sex lives. On the contrary, in many cases, normal erections that were fairly good, but after the woman's secretion is sufficient, they actually "faded", and even if they want to get it up, it is very hard. 

In fact, this may be because men spend "too much" time caring for women, and they lack sufficient sexual stimulation. To improve this situation is simple. First of all, the wife should take into account the changes in her husband's sexual ability, activate her "sex motor" in advance, and warm up her body through masturbation and other methods. Secondly, husbands can shorten the time of foreplay, and with the aid of lubricants, start substantive sex as soon as possible, and sexual stimulation will increase with the sex process.

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