A complete sexual life process should include three stages of foreplay, sexual intercourse and afterplay. These three stages are not only indispensable, and each stage has its own specific physical, psychological and technical requirements. Only by meeting these requirements or mastering these skills can sex life be perfect. Otherwise, there will always be problems. Do your best.
Foreplay is like a warm-up match for sports activities or preparations for formal intercourse. It is the initial stage of sexual activity. It is the process of cultivating emotions and increasing the level of sexual arousal. Waiting for a series of changes in the body and mind until intercourse is possible.
Before foreplay begins, vision can stimulate sexual arousal by appreciating the spouse’s body. Sweet talk and provocative language can also fuel the flames. The special smell or perfume of the human body can also arouse sexual desire. At the beginning of foreplay, in addition to sight, hearing, and In addition to the sense of smell, the sense of touch plays a greater role in sexual stimulation. It can also be said that true sexual contact is centered on the sense of touch. A variety of caressing actions must be organically combined, step by step, and develop from a low level to a high level. In place.
Foreplay usually starts with kissing, neck, chest, abdomen, and genital organs. Hugs can be spread all over the body, such as touching. Erotic zone is the main area. In the end, whether kissing or touching, it must be concentrated on the penis and clitoris, especially the clitoris. Stimulation is more important, because most women can achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation. The indicator of foreplay is that both men and women are highly sexually excited, the male penis is fully erected, and the female vagina is fully lubricated, ready for sexual intercourse.
The process of sexual intercourse is the core of the entire sexual life, and the key is still the close cooperation of both parties, and both get pleasure from the process of sexual intercourse. The technique of sexual intercourse is that men should often do continuous twitches, which can form a concentrated stimulation. Women should actively cooperate and respond to the pleasure of sexual intercourse. The verbal response is both guidance and encouragement for men’s actions. The change of sexual position is very important to the pleasure of both parties, because different positions have different stimulation sites for the vagina. Male upper and female lower clitoris often have indirect stimulation, and the back-in type stimulates G directly. The changes in position also make sexual intercourse interesting. The back pose can appreciate the fullness of women’s arms. It is easy to communicate with men and women or face-to-face. The beautiful face and crisp chest are straight to the eyes. When changing the sexual position, there can be a short period of no stimulation. For those with premature ejaculation Men can play the purpose of delaying ejaculation, which combined with postural changes, is really seamless, natural and smooth.
Orgasm is often the ultimate goal of sexual intercourse, but because of its different manifestations, it is not necessary to pursue consistency or perfection, and do not think that synchronous orgasm is the best state. Generally, women reach orgasm first and men reach orgasm slightly later. Well, because very few men fail to reach orgasm, women should be given priority at this time.
In recent
years, the afterplay has gradually attracted the attention of sexologists, and
there are also many problems, and there are still different opinions. Whether
the afterplay is necessary or not, the opinions gradually tend to be
consistent, but the time can be long or short. If both the husband and wife
have orgasm and are exhausted, the after play is not important at this time.
You can go to sleep after a short kiss and touch each other. go with. If women
have not reached full sexual satisfaction, or have not reached orgasm at all,
especially if they have not reached vaginal orgasm, when men ejaculate, they
will be like a burning fire and have extreme sexual excitement. If men are at
this time When they fall asleep, they feel that they have set aside a basin of
cold water in the fire, they are extremely depressed, and even disgusted with
sexual intercourse. Therefore, the afterplay is actually a process of
comforting women. For women who have not reached orgasm, they can reach
clitoral orgasm by touching or kissing, or through verbal communication.
Physical caress gradually makes women’s sexual excitement change from strong to
weak. Sometimes women’s needs for affection outweigh their sexual needs.
Therefore, men must not cherish and praise beautiful women's sexuality.
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