In the case of innocuousness, sexual fantasies may only benefit physical and mental health. It can enhance people's tolerance to adverse environments, such as reducing pain.
Recently, psychologists at Ohio State University in the United States conducted a study. They surveyed 18 to 25-year-old students and asked them to record the number of times they fantasized about sex, food, and sleep each day during a week.
The survey results show that women think of food 15.3 times on average, that is, once every 62 minutes, and sleep on average 13.4 times a day, that is, once every 72 minutes. Men think about food 25.1 times a day, once every 38 minutes, and think about sleep every 33 minutes.
For pornographic fantasies, men will appear 34.2 times a day, excluding 8 hours of sleep, about once every 28 minutes; women will have an average of 18.6 erotic fantasies a day, also excluding 8 hours of sleep, which is about Every 51 minutes.
Some experts say that because of the "strength" ratio, the frequency of men's sexual fantasies is much higher than that of women. In many cases, actions that are simple and straightforward in the eyes of women are linked to sex in the eyes of men-sexual fantasies become their vitamins, which makes it difficult for them to be satisfied.
According to a 1978 report, most men with rich imagination in this area are extremely unlikely to have a good sex life. Think about it as it is: I have been entangled with more than 10 objects in my mind, and there is only one or less than one sexual partner in reality; in my mind, how I am with Audrey Hepburn or Lin Chiling, but in reality I have to face it. To the bucket waist, winter melon face.
Experts have different opinions about whether sexual fantasies will destroy an ongoing relationship. Usually the "Psychology Report" just published an article that thinks that sexual fantasies reflect the level of sexual function, too much thinking can easily cause sexual anxiety, "Psychology Today" will respond to an article, saying that this is just a kind of meditation , Help to promote harmony between partners. However, in general, since love is not a lasting thing, it is troublesome to cheat after marriage, so fantasy when making love can not but say that it is a safe way to adjust.
In addition, studies have shown that
writers who are not rich in sexual fantasies can hardly become well-known
writers. Those who "did" deeply and think more are more likely to
write unique stories.
Of course, the maladjustment of some small mechanisms may greatly compromise the beauty of it.
Mahmood Bhutta, an otolaryngologist at John Radcliffe Hospital in Oxford, UK, once published an article in the Journal of the Royal Pharmaceutical Society, stating that he and his colleagues discovered a strange case. A middle-aged man would sneeze more than ever when he thought of how he would be with a beauty. . Bhutta didn't believe it at first. When he searched on the Internet with "sex" and "sneezes" as keywords, he found that there were quite a few people with this problem, just like those who plucked their eyebrows or were hit by direct sunlight. Like people who sneeze, it is likely that the trigeminal nerve cannot be stimulated.
In the case of innocuousness, sexual fantasies may only benefit physical and mental health. It can enhance people's tolerance to adverse environments, such as reducing pain.
Peter Staats, an anesthesiologist at the University of Wisconsin, once recruited 40 college students and asked them to put their hands in the biting ice water until they were too cold to bear. It turns out that if the subjects are asked to imagine that they are having sex with a certain object while undergoing this test, they can persist for as long as 3 minutes, which is much higher than that of the control group (the subjects can only perform Unwilling sexual fantasies or fantasies without sexual meaning), the latter can only work hard for an average of 1 minute. The researcher's explanation for this is because human emotions and pain are controlled by the thalamus and are restrained by each other.
If we want to understand ourselves more
deeply, it is absolutely necessary for us to analyze the content of our sexual
fantasies.
There is a saying: Most men's sexual fantasies are strangers of the opposite sex, while women, on the contrary, more than 60% of their sexual fantasies are acquaintances.
In addition, according to a survey conducted by the famous British dating website EliteSingles, as many as 61% of men have sexual fantasies about colleagues, and the utility room is listed as an "ideal place for office cheating" by 37% of men, mainly because of the door Usually it can be locked; as for women, the most popular place is the meeting room, with 24%, and the least popular places are the pantry and smoking room.
In addition, some scholars even believe that the content of sexual fantasies is the key to truly reflecting a person's sexual orientation. In other words, if they think you are gay or heterosexual, it is the sexual fantasies that make the final decision-it is the real subconscious mind.
In the process of sexual behavior modification (generally for homosexuality), some people have indeed changed the objects of their sexual fantasies. There are also objections: the well-known Masters and Johnson Institute of Sexology has conducted a survey, saying that homosexual fantasies appearing in heterosexuality and heterosexual fantasies appearing in homosexuality are very common.
According to a report published by Mark
Schwartz and William Masters in 1984, among the 120 subjects, homosexuality and
heterosexuality accounted for half of them, regardless of whether they were gay
or lesbian, in their sexual fantasies, and a heterosexual The frequency of the
scenes of having relationships ranks third, while the frequency of scenes of
heterosexual men fantasizing about same-sex sex is the fourth, and the
frequency of female heterosexuals fantasizing about same-sex sex is the fifth.
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