Sexual life and sexual ability

 Sexual life

The content of sexual life is very extensive. Kissing, hugging, caressing, teasing, etc. can all be attributed to sexual life, but the usual sexual life refers specifically to sexual intercourse.

Human sexual behavior is a product of biological evolution and is a normal physiological activity. But the sexual life of a couple is not only a physiological behavior that satisfies the needs of sexual desire. The reason why human beings are different from animals is that this kind of sexual behavior is based on love, driven by emotions, and there are abundant psychological activities in the process of sexual life. In addition, due to the progress of society, the advancement of science and technology, especially the continuous improvement of contraceptive technology, modern human sexual behavior and reproduction of offspring are no longer an inevitable relationship, and the two can be completely separated. A normal and harmonious sexual life not only relieves sexual tension and is beneficial to physical and mental health. At the same time, it is also an important aspect of maintaining the relationship between husband and wife and obtaining physical and mental satisfaction, so it has a great impact on individuals, families, and society.

Sexual ability

Individual sexual abilities vary greatly and are related to many factors. Sexual ability is not only restricted by the level of sex hormones and health, but also by mental state, psychological factors and even environmental factors. The same person's sexual ability can also change.

The strength of sexual ability is not entirely a reflection of physiological ability in many cases. For example, a strong athlete may show low libido due to his focus on training, while some people with much worse physique may show strong libido. Another example is that when some people are 50 years old, their sexual life has completely disappeared, but their health is not bad, while others can maintain active sex until they are more than 70 years old.

It must be pointed out that although sexual desire and sexual ability are interrelated, and usually the two are also consistent. But, after all, they are still different. For example, although some people have sexual desire, their ability to perform sexual acts is low. Generally speaking, the frequency of sexual intercourse can basically reflect the strength of sexual desire, while the degree of sexual excitement during intercourse and the duration of intercourse (which is related to the degree of sexual satisfaction) reflect the strength of sexual ability. Those who have a lot of sexual intercourse, very frequent, but the duration of sexual intercourse is not long, obviously the sexual desire is strong, but the sexual ability is insufficient. Indulgence will reduce sexual performance; psychological factors strongly affect the process of sexual response and affect the progress and completion of sexual behavior. Therefore, people must and may adjust their sexual performance to a certain extent in order to maintain good sexual performance. The strength of sexual ability is related to the quality of sexual life. And a high-quality, harmonious sexual life can enhance the relationship between husband and wife and enhance family happiness.