An Unconventional Love Story: Living with Lifelike Companions

Traditionally, societal recognition has centered around the pairing of a man and a woman, the creation of a family, and the joy of raising children. However, in today's evolving world, a new form of companionship is emerging. A group of middle-aged men is choosing to share their lives with life-sized, inanimate partners, in the form of either inflatable or silicone sex dolls. To these men, these dolls represent more than just a means of fulfilling physical desires. They wash, dress, hug, and even dance with their synthetic partners, viewing them as their silent, but cherished, lovers.

 

The stories of these lovers of real lovedolls are as unique as the dolls themselves. Yet, underlying their choices are the societal fears and judgments that anyone can easily encounter. Those who purchase silicone dolls are often unfairly stigmatized as "freaks" or "perverts." A Japanese documentary once delved into the lives of Japanese men who formed connections with dolls for a variety of reasons, ranging from overcoming social barriers and fulfilling unconventional desires to simply being captivated by the beauty of silicone dolls. Loneliness is a recurring theme among these men, and it is the most frequently mentioned reason behind their choices. While films and television shows may sometimes depict inflatable and silicone dolls as vehicles for pure emotions, they primarily serve to satisfy sexual desires and fantasies.

 

Meet GIBO, a 45-year-old Chinese engineer. Every night, after returning home from work, he opens the door to his Shanghai apartment. Instead of being greeted by his wife or girlfriend, he finds a line of sex dolls neatly arranged on the sofa. Each of these dolls has a name, and for GIBO, they represent far more than lifeless objects. Each evening, GIBO shares his life with these dolls. They watch TV together, read together, and engage in a routine shower and dressing procedure. GIBO carefully cleanses their "skin" after bathing and applies talcum powder to make it feel as lifelike as possible. He then selects their attire with great care and carries them to the bedroom, where they sleep together. "A real girl may betray you or hurt you. Sex dolls never will. They belong to me entirely," he asserts. GIBO's collection comprises 20 inflatable and silicone dolls, for whom he rents a duplex apartment. Over the past decade, he has invested approximately 160,000 yuan in acquiring this diverse assortment of dolls. "Getting to know someone and building a relationship takes time, but with a sexy real sex doll, the process is entirely different. With a simple click, she can be delivered to your doorstep," GIBO explains. Although he claims to have had sexual experiences with three women, he continues to cherish the unique relationships he shares with his silicone companions.

 

GIBO's story challenges societal norms and encourages us to contemplate the nature of human connections. While his choice to form profound relationships with sex dolls may appear unconventional, it is a path he willingly embraces, finding comfort, companionship, and solace in these silicone and inflatable companions.

 

The world of passion dolls is a tapestry of diversity, and the motivations behind men like GIBO forming connections with these dolls are as multifaceted as the dolls themselves. Loneliness, a desire for uncomplicated intimacy, or an appreciation for the craftsmanship that goes into creating these dolls can all be contributing factors.

 

In conclusion, the unconventional relationships that men like GIBO cultivate with their passion dolls offer a unique perspective on the myriad ways people seek solace, companionship, and love. While society may rush to judgment, these individuals have chosen a path that resonates with them, providing a sense of fulfillment and connection that transcends the traditional boundaries of human relationships.

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